Saturday, 26 September 2009 00:21

help for sex addiction

Sex addiction among gay men is real. Between the Internet, iPhone apps and crystal meth, our gay male community is overloaded with opportunities for a quick hook-up.

This is not an indoctrination of casual sex among gay men - sexual liberation and exploration are important parts of any sexuality and coming-of-age experience - but a resource for those who believe they have crossed the line and are in a cycle of obsessions and compulsions, high-risk behaviors and ensuing shame and isolation.


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Many people don't want to talk about sex addiction, but it is affecting thousands of wonderful men (and women) and there is help. Men that are affected are aware that they aren't living their best lives, yet they don't know how to make lasting changes. Thankfully, for those that want to make changes, there are many resources for our local gay community.

If you are experiencing feelings of disconnection, shame and low self-esteem; if you find yourself involved in dangerous encounters and you are putting your physical and emotional health at risk and you are ready to end this brutal cycle, please consider asking for help.

Remember, there is no shame is asking for help; it's available for you - in the form of a book or 12-step meeting or a caring, non-judgmental therapist - you just have to ask.

For more information check out these books, websites and local resources:

  Sexual Compulsives Anonymous

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